I often hear clients and subscribers state that they were doing everything “right”, not focusing negatively or worrying about their desires, yet something undesired happens relative to their desire, and they get triggered.
They ask why has that undesired circumstance manifested?
Here’s the thing, HOW you respond to a given situation is probably more important than the state that precedes the situation. It’s the one thing that coaches keep repeating but still seems to be missed again and again by people.
Are you still CHOOSING the desired state before, during and after undesired circumstances? If the answer is no, then you have not changed.
You’re still CHOOSING to give more importance to the 3D over your chosen inner identity.
You’re still CHOOSING to let the 3D dictate who you are rather than the other way around.
As Bashar always says, “for the reflection in the mirror to change, you must change first”.
You have not changed if you still get triggered by the circumstance, regardless of what state you’ve held up to that undesired manifestation.
When you decide that no circumstance will ever make you feel:
Not worthy and undeserving, or
Not desired, chosen and pursued, or
Not at the peak of your health, or
Not financially abundant….
And you keep choosing the desired identity even IF an undesired circumstance manifests, and you make that circumstance irrelevant, then this is when you have truly changed.
The change is from within… the change is not driven by external results.
That is the first and foremost important sign of change…What’s going on internally.
This is why coaches keep repeating “circumstances do not matter”! It’s not just in relation to circumstances that exist BEFORE you decide to manifest something different. But it also applies even after “you’ve done everything right”…
When you are still getting triggered by the 3D, you have not changed.
You don’t need to like or appreciate the undesired circumstance. Or accept it.
Of-course not.
But you’re not allowing that circumstance to dictate WHO YOU CHOOSE TO BE. You are not allowing the circumstance to dictate what you can have. You are not letting the 3D indicate to you that you have failed at your manifestation.
Simply put, you are not using the 3D for validation.
You are standing FIRM in the identity that you are choosing!
You are resting in the fulfillment of your desire regardless of the 3D. And you actually do not care about anything in the 3D.
So don’t ask “why did I manifest this?”… Ask yourself, “why am I STILL using the 3D for validation?”
Do not use your 3D as validation of your progress. The only relevant validation is how you respond to the 3D, and what identity you are CONTINUE TO CHOOSE even if the 3D is undesirable.
This is just a reminder to you that the ONLY relevant change is internal, and the only true validation you need is your inner state and chosen identity.
You got this!
