Last week, I posted a video about what assuming really means. It’s not just something you experience BEFORE a 3d circumstance manifests, but also the assumptions you are making in response to any 3d circumstances! It’s anything you are CHOOSING to uphold about a certain situation regardless of when and how you came to uphold the assumption.

I have also been talking a lot recently about the two identities: Identity X (where you do not have your desire) and Identity Y (where you do have your desire). Depending on which identity you are choosing and claiming, you will activate within you the corresponding inner state (i.e. beliefs, thoughts, emotions and actions).

So when you have sent a text message to your specific person and you are CLAIMING Identity Y (i.e. you are choosing the identity of someone who is LOVED, CHOSEN AND PURSUED), you are much less likely to perceive a delayed response as rejection because you know that you are loved, chosen and pursued and no 3D circumstance can change that!

You know it can never be about you.

But if you are still perceiving it as rejection, you’re still in Identity X. You’re still CHOOSING to see the 3D as the SOURCE of WHO you are (and what identity to hold) rather than the other way around, and then you continue to create from that space.

In response to this point, one of my lovely clients asked me an interesting question.

She said that she experienced something similar with someone she’s been dating, and she was TRYING to justify his lack of response as “it’s not about me, he is just too busy”. She then went on to ask if that was a good assumption to make or if it could potentially create more circumstances where he is too busy for her and not prioritizing her.

Here’s the thing… when you are NEEDING to justify the 3D, you are still in Identity X. That is because you are making the 3D the SOURCE rather than the OUTCOME. You are trying to force the 3D to fit into the new story you are telling about yourself. Sometimes it works for sure! But other times, in doing so, you are giving importance to the 3d, which then causes you to STAY in Identity X!

If you were in Identity Y, you don’t care about 3D. You know you are loved, chosen and pursued and nothing in 3D can change that. You never give importance to the 3D until it starts reflecting your fully desired outcome.

So really, the undesired 3D is irrelevant and don’t even try to justify why an undesired circumstance is showing up… in fact, justifying may create more delays! The key is to realize that YOU ARE THE SOURCE.

Only then, can you make the undesired 3D irrelevant and only then are you able to keep choosing Identity Y fully and purely with zero consideration to the 3D. And that’s when you manifest the change you desire in full.

You CHOOSE and the 3D matches.

You’re not supposed to try and make the 3D fit into the story you are telling about yourself. Recognize that the source is always within you. Otherwise you’re perpetually going back and forth between Identities X and Y and not allowing the 3D to shift in your favor.

I talk about that in more detail in this week’s video:

Needing to Justify the 3D is Choosing the Wrong Identity – YouTube

 

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Today, I want to talk about one of my lovely clients, who is literally manifesting two different versions of her soon-to-be fiancé. While they have a great loving relationship, one of the issues she is struggling with is his view on money.

It’s been a while since she’s been highly observant of his issues with money in general, with him being quite vocal about his thoughts of lack around money, not wishing to spend money, discussing costs of things on every occasion, etc.

He predominantly harbors a scarcity mindset around money.

We discussed how she has created this to begin with… he literally checked all her boxes in multiple ways. But our fearful human mind assumes that this “seems too good to be true”. So while he’s leaps and bounds much better than her previous partners, including a highly abusive ex-husband, she still did manifest something in him that makes him less than ideal.

An added concern that does not help is that his father was the same way.

But everything can be literally changed. His “inherited” patterns and/or trans-generational programming can be broken. His scarcity mindset can be changed 180 degrees!

You have to remember that with manifesting, there are no restrictions.

Regardless of the past and what you are experiencing in 3D…

Circumstances never matter.

There are no limitations to what can be changed in someone. She can literally manifest the exact opposite of him right here right now.

And she did, as I’ll cover later.

But when it feels hard to “change” someone, it’s because you are highly focused on the undesired version. Withdrawing your focus from that will make manifesting the opposite feel much easier.

It also helps to create a better story as to why he is the way he is. To help her envision a more abundant mindset, we agreed that his issue stems from financial strains and not because he is cheap or stingy.

And together, we set the intention that he is overall much more abundant…and bam, that manifested almost instantly.

He not only got a new job but a great severance package from his old job. It is more than enough to cover all the costs of the ring and wedding. Not only did that abundance come in, but he also literally told her that he will use that money to give her the ring and wedding she desires.

But until she stabilizes HER story about him, she is still experiencing two different versions of him. Two different personalities. This is not inconsistent behavior. These are two different versions and realities!

In this week’s video, I talk about how this is evidence of parallel realities and how there are zero restrictions to shifting into a reality where a more desired version of someone is showing up. Check it out on the link below:

She’s Manifesting Two Different Versions of Him | Law of Assumption – YouTube

Last month, a lovely client signed up for email coaching, requesting help in creating change for herself in two life areas, one of which is money. She is a real estate agent, who has high debt and barely made a few thousand dollars last year. She felt like her life was a mess and really needed to turn things around for herself.

Adding to that, she works with her mother, who is herself a successful real estate agent but has the belief that one must work very hard to get results, creating a misalignment in work and vision for both.

She filled out the coaching questionnaire and based on that, I developed the coaching plan for her, providing her with customized affirmations addressing her specific issues and some journaling prompts to use as part of her routine.

The outcome?

On the same day… on the same exact day that she started implementing the coaching plan, she received a referral for a $20 million dollar property.

She was utterly shocked…she emailed me and in her own words said that this deal alone could literally change her life and settle all her debt.

This made her realize just how easy it truly is.

Yes, it’s that simple.

She actually told me about multiple other successes, which were also fabulous. But the thing she recalls is getting an idea last year to focus on luxury real estate but she never pursued that. And of-course, the day she started on the coaching plan, the first manifestation was a referral on a $20 million luxury property.

It was her higher mind that gave her that idea last year. And this is again her higher mind telling her to pursue that idea!

All this is telling YOU that everything you desire is literally waiting at your door.

You just need to open the door!

There is never any hard work involved. I say this again and again. The opportunities will literally come to you, in exactly the same way it happened with my client.

The opportunities are right outside your door. But you need to open the door!

Don’t keep the door shut by creating conditions for yourself… i.e. thinking that you need to take multiple steps before you can receive your desires.

Never.

That is never the case unless you insist that this is what needs to happen, in which case, you are blocking the manifestation.

I share more on this client’s story and what she actually did in this week’s video:
Client Manifests a $20 Mil Deal on the Same Day Using Affirmations | Law of Assumption

I’ve heard people mention that any time they start working on consciously manifesting a certain desire, they manifest the exact opposite. One subscriber mentioned that she now expects that to happen any time she works on manifesting something because that has been her pattern.

While of-course, that is an assumption that it will happen every time, it is important to understand why she may have manifested that to begin with.

As Abraham Hicks always says, whenever you launch a new “rocket of desire”, you are automatically aware that you do not have that desire. As you work on consciously manifesting, you are automatically showing up in one of two polar opposite states: wanted versus unwanted. One state is aligned with HAVING (i.e. focused on wanted) and the other is in lack (i.e. focused on unwanted).

They are essentially two ends of an imaginary stick (as Abraham says). When you consciously work on manifesting, you need to consider whether you are on the right end of the stick.

Are you in the state of HAVING (i.e. state of wish fulfilled) or are you in the state of NOT HAVING (i.e. lack)?

You think that you are actively “manifesting” but if you are on the wrong end of the stick, you are placing your focus and attention on lack!

So essentially, as you start to work on manifesting, it is very important that you remain mindful of where your focus and attention truly is. Just because you are actively manifesting something, it does not mean that your focus is on the right end of the stick.

One great way of gauging which end of the stick you’re on is to notice what you’re thinking, saying and doing. Remain mindful of these patterns and ask yourself: “If I already had my desire, would I think, say or do any of that?”

Once you understand why you may manifest the opposite, you can (a) let go of the assumption that the opposite needs to happen and (b) remain mindful of which end of the stick you’re most identified with (wanted or unwanted; having or not having; state of the wish fulfilled or state of lack…).

This really is all there is to it. And remember, you can decide right now that you are always and effortlessly in the state of the wish fulfilled.

I talk more about this in this week’s video!

Manifesting the Opposite of Your Desire?! | Law of Attraction (youtube.com)

 

I received a question from one of my subscribers about how to manifest her desired relationship by Valentine’s Day.

This is really a perfect example of manifesting on a deadline!

We all know that in every moment, we are shifting realities based on our inner state. It’s a state of consciousness reflecting either a state of wish fulfillment or a state of lack – where a given desire is concerned.

When we have placed a deadline for the manifestation of a desire, we must remain conscious of not placing ourselves in a state of lack and pressure, both of which are not aligned with the state of the wish fulfilled.
So to be able to bridge that gap, it’s important to shift internally from that state of lack & pressure to the state of the HAVING our desire.

How do we do that when that date keeps getting closer and closer? How do we remain in the state of the wish fulfilled when we are so conscious of that deadline?

Taking into consideration a date such as Valentine’s Day, there are three different ways to address that gap.

The first is to mentally jump to that date and be thankful for already having that desire. For example, you can say “I am so happy that today is Valentine’s Day and I am in a loving committed relationship with my ideal partner”. Rather than making that date an upcoming future date that is getting closer and closer, we are literally ON that day already, and we are enjoying our manifestation in its full. In doing this, we have shifted from pressure to relief.

My second recommendation for dealing with this stems from the notion that when you are already in your desired relationship, it is unlikely that you are worried about Valentine’s Day coming! The only scenarios where you would be thinking about it so early on is if you are in the early stages of your relationship, you’re very romantic by nature, or you’re a planner! Therefore, the second way to be in the state of the wish fulfilled is to actually plan for that day! You don’t need to take actual physical action (such as booking a location or spending money) but you can certainly research potential dinner date or holiday venues, experiences, trips, outfits and so on! This automatically puts you in the state of the having. In fact, this can really make it more and more believable.

The third suggestion is to not give it another thought! Yes… that’s correct! You’ll understand why I say that in my video below, where I talk about this and more:

How to Manifest Your Desired Relationship by Valentine’s Day | Law of Assumption

 

You also don’t want to miss another video I posted earlier in the week!

Are the Core Principles of Manifesting Also Assumptions? | Law of Assumption