I often hear clients and subscribers state that they were doing everything “right”, not focusing negatively or worrying about their desires, yet something undesired happens relative to their desire, and they get triggered.

They ask why has that undesired circumstance manifested?

Here’s the thing, HOW you respond to a given situation is probably more important than the state that precedes the situation. It’s the one thing that coaches keep repeating but still seems to be missed again and again by people.

Are you still CHOOSING the desired state before, during and after undesired circumstances? If the answer is no, then you have not changed.

You’re still CHOOSING to give more importance to the 3D over your chosen inner identity.

You’re still CHOOSING to let the 3D dictate who you are rather than the other way around.

As Bashar always says, “for the reflection in the mirror to change, you must change first”.

You have not changed if you still get triggered by the circumstance, regardless of what state you’ve held up to that undesired manifestation.

When you decide that no circumstance will ever make you feel:

Not worthy and undeserving, or

Not desired, chosen and pursued, or

Not at the peak of your health, or

Not financially abundant….

And you keep choosing the desired identity even IF an undesired circumstance manifests, and you make that circumstance irrelevant, then this is when you have truly changed.

The change is from within… the change is not driven by external results.

That is the first and foremost important sign of change…What’s going on internally.

This is why coaches keep repeating “circumstances do not matter”! It’s not just in relation to circumstances that exist BEFORE you decide to manifest something different. But it also applies even after “you’ve done everything right”…

When you are still getting triggered by the 3D, you have not changed.

You don’t need to like or appreciate the undesired circumstance. Or accept it.

Of-course not.

But you’re not allowing that circumstance to dictate WHO YOU CHOOSE TO BE. You are not allowing the circumstance to dictate what you can have. You are not letting the 3D indicate to you that you have failed at your manifestation.

Simply put, you are not using the 3D for validation.

You are standing FIRM in the identity that you are choosing!

You are resting in the fulfillment of your desire regardless of the 3D. And you actually do not care about anything in the 3D.

So don’t ask “why did I manifest this?”… Ask yourself, “why am I STILL using the 3D for validation?”

Do not use your 3D as validation of your progress. The only relevant validation is how you respond to the 3D, and what identity you are CONTINUE TO CHOOSE even if the 3D is undesirable.

This is just a reminder to you that the ONLY relevant change is internal, and the only true validation you need is your inner state and chosen identity.

You got this! 

When you’re on your manifesting journey, there may come a time when you’ll wonder how you got into manifesting and what the purpose of this journey really is?

And at times, if you’re in lack, you may even wonder if learning about manifesting has complicated things for you further.

I always say that learning to manifest is a journey of higher consciousness. It’s actually a constant expansion of awareness because I personally keep perceiving and seeing concepts from newer and more expanded perspectives, triggered by both my experiences and the experiences of my clients.

So manifesting definitely goes deeper than just chasing desires, although having desires is a crucial component of this physical experience but not the end in and of itself.

This compelled me to create a 3-part video series that explains consciousness and manifesting from a bigger picture perspective.

The series actually dives into who we really are, why we’re here, why we experience duality and why our manifestations seem to unfold in the way that they do.

Understanding is a crucial component of mastering the manifesting process.  The more you expand your awareness and understanding, the more you find it easier to get out of your own way.

It all starts in the non-physical. Each one of us has a bigger-than-we-think purpose. Each one of us is contributing to the One (All That Is) through our unique signature essence. Our desires are never a coincidence. We intended to explore a certain theme when focusing into physical form. Our unique Point of View or Perspective helps One Consciousness expand awareness of itself because how we experience the unfolding of our own desires is very unique to us, based on both our signature essence and our theme of exploration.

You are a crucial component of One Consciousness. Your point of view is needed! And everyone in your reality is helping you fully experience YOUR unique point of view.

Duality is another important component that helps One Consciousness expand its experiential awareness of itself through our unique point of view. Duality, which is an egoic structure of the physical experience, plays a very important role in helping us navigate our physical reality.

Finally, what we perceive as time-space is a 3D structure that helps us experience the unfolding of every desire. It’s meant to be that way! So stop worrying about the time.

Manifesting is a much more spiritual concept than we realize.

In this week’s 3-part video series, I go through all the above and more.

Part 1 covers the concept of the two different aspects of the One (i.e. All That Is/Source Energy and One Consciousness). It also covers the first most important concept required for One Consciousness to expand awareness of itself: the concept of an “Other” and the explosion of individuated forms that represent our individual “points of view” created in the likeness of All that Is.

Part 2 covers the second concept required for One Consciousness to expand awareness of itself: the concept of Duality and it’s 3 main purposes.

Part 3, which will be posted tomorrow, covers the third concept required for One Consciousness to expand awareness of itself: the concept of 3D Linear Time and Space and the reason physical reality is structured in this manner.

I hope you enjoy watching this 3-part series as much as I enjoyed creating them.

You can watch the three parts below:

Understanding Consciousness and Manifesting Part 1 | Law of Assumption

Understanding Consciousness and Manifesting Part 2 | Law of Assumption

Stay Tuned for Part 3 (Come back here on Friday May 3rd to watch the 3rd video)

As I have been talking more and more about Identities X and Y, my clients have been sharing with me their progress applying this new understanding.

As a reminder to what these two identities actually mean, Identity X represents the identity or state where you do not have your desire or see yourself or your actions/behaviors as flawed in some way or not in favor of you having your desire. It’s the state of the wish unfulfilled.

Whereas Identity Y is the identity of the person who DOES have their desire and who is really perfect exactly as they are. It’s the identity that reflects the state of the wish fulfilled.

My clients have actually been experiencing great results in applying this understanding. But there were times where they perceived themselves struggling to “hold the state” or “choose Y instead of X”. One client said that on one occasion, she was in constant shifting between the two identities. While another client said that he found it hard to “keep holding the desired state”.

But here’s the thing… when you are not CHOOSING Identity X, you are naturally and by default in Identity Y!

The minute you get a new desire, you are ALREADY in the identity of having it.

YOU are a part of ALL THAT IS and created in the image of ALL THAT IS, and therefore, recognize that the minute you experience a new desire, YOU ARE ALREADY in possession of it. Otherwise, you would not have that desire.

Everything already exists. Creation is completed. The fact that a desire is in your awareness means that you are already conscious of being it.

This is literally what is meant by Neville Goddard’s quote: “You are already that which you want to be and your refusal to believe it is the only reason you do not see it”.

This means there is no state to “hold”. You don’t need to “keep bringing yourself back to Y” because you are in Y by default.

You only ACTIVATE Identity X when you overthink, overanalyze and give truth and permanence to the 3D.

Recognize that the minute you just observe a limiting thought and allow it to pass with zero self-criticism, judgement, meaning or truth, you automatically shift NATURALLY BACK to Identity Y.

You never have to force a shift.

Abraham Hicks talks about the cork floating in water. The cork is naturally floating in water. The only way the cork can go underwater is when you push it down with your finger. So you are naturally in Identity Y (the cork naturally floating in water) and you only take yourself away from it when you choose Identity X (by pushing down on the cork with your finger).

When you are going about your day, doing things that make you happy, spending time with friends, pursuing hobbies, doing work that makes you happy… YOU ARE IN Y!

That is why it’s important to follow your highest excitement in every moment. Doing so ensures that you are in your natural state of being and that you do not allow space for choosing Identity X and activating its corresponding state.

But even if you do activate it, it is momentary! You go straight back by default when you focus on something else. And if you can’t stop thinking, you can pause & reboot (as I explained in my Trinity video). This helps you disengage from the inner state of Identity X.

Essentially, the pause & reboot takes you into the central state of neutrality, which is skewed ever so slightly towards the positive, thereby allowing you to drift back into that natural state representative of Identity Y.

Identity Y is who you truly and naturally are by default!

I talk much more about this in this week’s video:

You Are Already That Which You Want to Be | Law of Assumption

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For people who were first introduced to the concept of manifesting through the Law of Attraction, emotions were a big topic of conversation.  Stay positive. Keep positive emotions. Beware of negative emotions so you don’t create undesired circumstances…

Essentially, there was a great deal of talk about emotions. At least that is how it was commonly perceived.

It felt hard to shift from negative emotions because the more we felt bad about having negative emotions (for fear of creating negative outcomes), the more negative emotions we ended up activating!

It quickly became a vicious cycle.

But emotions are actually not the source! And perhaps that was really the message of Law of Attraction teachings.

In the past few weeks, I’ve been talking a lot about the two identities.

Identity X, which reflects the identity of the person who does not have their desire (e.g. I am not loved, chosen, pursued) and Identity Y, which reflects the identity of the person who does have their desire (e.g. I am loved, chosen and pursued).

Any time you choose an identity, you activate the corresponding inner state (i.e. the beliefs, thoughts emotions and actions) of that identity.

Emotions are part of that inner state.

Emotions reflect which of the identities you are really choosing.

When you’re feeling sad and heartbroken, it’s really a signal to you that you are currently CHOOSING Identity X.

Why are you choosing Identity X? Because you are using the 3D to determine who you are. You are using the 3D as the source and making “who you are” the outcome.

When instead, you should remind yourself that the 3D is the outcome of what you continue to choose, i.e. you are using the 3D to determine that you are not loved, chosen and pursued, and in doing so, you are CHOOSING Identity X and creating more of that in 3D.

So emotions themselves have no real creative power except to remind you which identity you are choosing right now. It may feel hard to disconnect from negative emotions. But it’s not so hard to recognize which identity is the SOURCE of the negative emotions.

In that awareness, you can choose again the more preferred identity.

If you find it hard to disconnect from Identity X, it’s because you are overly identified with it at the moment. You must zoom out first to shift to Identity Y. That’s why I recommend the Trinity Approach, where you can pause & reboot, and then choose Identity Y once again.

When you choose Identity Y ( I AM loved, chosen and pursued), you feel the relief once again because you have activated the inner state of that identity. You have automatically activated the corresponding emotions.

The inner state is a manifestation of the identity you are choosing. And soon to follow will be the 3D.

Remember, YOU are the source. You DECIDE who you are and then the 3D matches. Not the other way around.

I talk all about that in this week’s video:

The Least Understood Concept from Law of Attraction

I’ll also be filming a video about this next week.

Meanwhile, check out my latest video on the link below:

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You always hear Manifestation Coaches talk about the undesired physical 3D reality being completely irrelevant, as you’re manifesting change. They always say to IGNORE until you get your full desired outcome.

But people still find it hard to ignore and make the 3D irrelevant, despite these constant reminders.

So I thought I would create a post about exactly why 3D is truly irrelevant.

I have recently been talking a lot about Identities X and Y, with X being the identity of the person who does not have their desire and Y being the identity of the person who does have their desire.

They are essentially two opposite states.

And we are constantly shifting states in every single moment based on the CHOICES we are making in every moment, namely: (a) the assumptions we are making in every moment (whether these assumptions come before, during or after a 3D circumstance), and (b) our focus and attention (i.e. what we are choosing to focus on, including anything undesired).

Our physical reality is nothing more than a series of moment-by-moment OUTCOMES reflecting our identity or state in that very moment, very similar to an animated flipbook.

Now every identity has a corresponding timeline, with a perceived past and future, that does NOT CHANGE. The outcome is already written out based on that identity. So when you are DECIDING that you are not loved, chosen, and pursued (regardless of how you came to decide that about yourself), the corresponding physical timeline will reflect that.

That timeline never changes, whether you are experiencing that timeline in the past or in the future (although really everything is now and linear time is just an illusion).

When you DECIDE that you ARE loved, chosen and pursued (i.e. when you claim Identity Y), that inner shift causes the external timeline to also shift. The timeline of Identity Y also never changes. It’s always reflective of the identity of someone who is loved, chosen and pursued and can never change, unless YOU decide to go back to Identity X.

So when you perceive that your 3D is inconsistent, and you’re experiencing hot and cold behavior from someone or breadcrumbs, it is because YOU are shifting identities. It’s not because the person is changing. YOU are literally shifting identities (and corresponding timelines) based on your choices in that very moment.

This means that when you send a text message to your person from an inspired state of the person who is loved, chosen and pursued (i.e. Identity Y), and then you give a delayed response meaning (such as I don’t appear to be loved, chosen and pursued), you are re-choosing Identity X, and bam, the delayed response persists into hours and days. In fact, the timeline corresponding to Identity X does NOT get any response ever. That is because timeline X never changes… it always reflects the identity of the person who will never be loved, chosen and pursued.

That story and timeline is done and written out already. It can’t change.

This is why you must ignore the 3D while you are creating the change you desire. The change is from WITHIN. It’s about choosing that you are loved, chosen and pursued (i.e. choosing and claiming Identity Y) REGARDLESS of what’s in 3D.

That then allows you to keep IDENTITY Y active within you, thereby giving room for the 3D to take the desired form (as you start to experience the timeline reflective of the identity that you are holding internally).

I talk about all this in much more detail in this week’s video:

This is Why Circumstances Really Do Not Matter | Law of Assumption (youtube.com)