Last week, I posted a video about what assuming really means. It’s not just something you experience BEFORE a 3d circumstance manifests, but also the assumptions you are making in response to any 3d circumstances! It’s anything you are CHOOSING to uphold about a certain situation regardless of when and how you came to uphold the assumption.
I have also been talking a lot recently about the two identities: Identity X (where you do not have your desire) and Identity Y (where you do have your desire). Depending on which identity you are choosing and claiming, you will activate within you the corresponding inner state (i.e. beliefs, thoughts, emotions and actions).
So when you have sent a text message to your specific person and you are CLAIMING Identity Y (i.e. you are choosing the identity of someone who is LOVED, CHOSEN AND PURSUED), you are much less likely to perceive a delayed response as rejection because you know that you are loved, chosen and pursued and no 3D circumstance can change that!
You know it can never be about you.
But if you are still perceiving it as rejection, you’re still in Identity X. You’re still CHOOSING to see the 3D as the SOURCE of WHO you are (and what identity to hold) rather than the other way around, and then you continue to create from that space.
In response to this point, one of my lovely clients asked me an interesting question.
She said that she experienced something similar with someone she’s been dating, and she was TRYING to justify his lack of response as “it’s not about me, he is just too busy”. She then went on to ask if that was a good assumption to make or if it could potentially create more circumstances where he is too busy for her and not prioritizing her.
Here’s the thing… when you are NEEDING to justify the 3D, you are still in Identity X. That is because you are making the 3D the SOURCE rather than the OUTCOME. You are trying to force the 3D to fit into the new story you are telling about yourself. Sometimes it works for sure! But other times, in doing so, you are giving importance to the 3d, which then causes you to STAY in Identity X!
If you were in Identity Y, you don’t care about 3D. You know you are loved, chosen and pursued and nothing in 3D can change that. You never give importance to the 3D until it starts reflecting your fully desired outcome.
So really, the undesired 3D is irrelevant and don’t even try to justify why an undesired circumstance is showing up… in fact, justifying may create more delays! The key is to realize that YOU ARE THE SOURCE.
Only then, can you make the undesired 3D irrelevant and only then are you able to keep choosing Identity Y fully and purely with zero consideration to the 3D. And that’s when you manifest the change you desire in full.
You CHOOSE and the 3D matches.
You’re not supposed to try and make the 3D fit into the story you are telling about yourself. Recognize that the source is always within you. Otherwise you’re perpetually going back and forth between Identities X and Y and not allowing the 3D to shift in your favor.
I talk about that in more detail in this week’s video:
Needing to Justify the 3D is Choosing the Wrong Identity – YouTube
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